Saturday, March 21, 2015

The Power of Relationships 2

Excerpts from Maximize Relationships by Uyoyou C. Charles-Iyoha

Sometimes, the relationships that God allows in our lives frighten and astonish us particularly on account of the lifestyle of the people; the cruel and harsh treatment they mete out to us; the countless cries of help to God and the seeming delay in getting help from God that makes us wonder if God still exists and if He does, If He still cares about us. Hold your peace, child of God. God cares and is watching out for your best interest, ensuring that no evil befalls you while He is building your rest designed for His specific time.

Also, the person may not be exactly your first choice of a relationship partner. But if the person is brought your way for a purpose, then thank God and learn. Joseph for instance had absolutely no choice in choosing his brothers, who sold him to the Midianites traders. He was eventually sold off to Potiphar. Fortunately, Joseph understood his role as a slave and worked diligently, comporting himself in a godly manner. In no time, he became chief of staff in Potiphar's house. But just when he was beginning to savor the job, Potiphar's wife chose to be used of the devil; albeit in a very positive manner. Positive!  YES, for it was this situation that led to Joseph's imprisonment in the royal prison. That placement made the connection between Joseph and Pharaoh's chief butler which eventually culminated in Joseph being brought to Pharaoh. That was it – the jealousy and hatred by his older brothers that led to his sale to Midianites traders who in turn sold him to Potiphar's wife that led to his imprisonment were all the hand of the unseen but mighty God directing and ordering Joseph to his rest, the purpose of God for his life.

This explains why Joseph could say to his brothers in Genesis Chapter 50 verse 19 that what his brothers meant for evil turned out to be for the greater good because God intervened in the situation to work out His purposes, plans and timing for Joseph’s life. God had made a promise to Abraham in Genesis Chapter 15 verses 13 to 16. Though God did not specify at that time what land the descendants of Abraham would serve in as slaves, it turned out to be Egypt and Joseph was sent ahead by God to prepare a place for them in Egypt; ironically against the global famine of Joseph's day. Thus did the Israelites settle in Egypt, not initially as slaves but as migrants and relations of the then Prime Minister of Egypt. This was Joseph, the chief servant of Potiphar, later a prisoner and finally a Prime Minister.

Prison is prison for crying out loud and no place for prestige, honor, fame, resource ownership and position. So also is servant-hood. I believe Joseph understood all of these implications to his leadership role which explains why above everything else he desired to get out of prison and pleaded with the butler to remember him. It also explains why he comported himself well in each of the limiting positions he found himself in. It was not long before God orchestrated Joseph's exit out of those positions and put him where he rightly belonged – Prime Minister of Egypt.  It is significant to note that Joseph did not own any possessions or resources until he left servant-hood and prison to become Prime Minister. That exactly is why the devil orchestrated Joseph's slavery through his brothers; incited Potiphar's wife to ensure prison so that Joseph who had declared himself leader of his father's children would own nothing whatsoever, be a slave, a servant and a prisoner. Who bows to a servant and a prisoner? Nobody in his right mind does that and not even when you are head of the prisoners.  Joseph never preoccupied himself with owning resources while serving as a servant and as a prisoner. He preoccupied himself with getting out of prison. Beloved, it is time to get out of prison into where God purposed for you in Jesus mighty name, Amen.

When Joseph eventually got out of prison, global wealth, honor, fame and leadership were his without any struggle. He just owned what he did not sweat for; a befitting house, a wife, children, choice clothes, furniture and what have you. Joseph was free, wealthy and respected. Getting out of prison, in this case whatever limits you from achieving purpose is therefore your primary goal after which every other thing will follow.

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