Written by Uyoyou Christiana Charles-Iyoha
Quite significant and instructive is the fact that the
relationships you invest in play an important role in the journey to and plan
for abundance. This is because some relationships are time wasting
relationships which drain you spiritually, physically, mentally and
economically. They do not in any way contribute to your personal development
and will therefore not help you to plan for abundance.
The relationships you urgently require are relationships that will inject life into you through the information they share with you. The biblical Ruth, a widow with no economic resources and leverage whatsoever in Israel; who lived off gleaning; became the wife of Boaz and co-owner of Boaz’ wealth because of the life transforming information that Naomi shared with her. You can imagine what would have happened to Ruth if she chose to spend time with fellow widows who frittered time in idle chatter and immoral activities instead of diligent work and quality relationships. She would have remained, poor, hungry, insignificant and unknown. But because she chose quality relationships, she became significant, famous and wealthy and is also listed in the genealogy of Jesus Christ. What greater honor could anyone desire!
The widow of the indebted prophet chose who she shared her challenges with carefully. She did not did not fritter time in idle chatter and gossip. She also did not go to the company of complainers, murmurers and grumblers and maligners. Neither did she set up a pity party. Rather, she went to see the prophet Elisha and shared her problem with him and from the depth of divine wisdom and the Holy Spirit in him, Elisha gave the widow divine instructions which brought about economic transformation in their lives.
Beloved, there are people around you who resent your upward
climb and will do about anything to ensure that you are brought to their level
of mediocrity and insignificance. You will recognize them by the kind of
information they share with you – gossip and irrelevancies which do not in any
way contribute to your personal spiritual, mental, intellectual and economic
development. Give them a wide berth. You do not need such people in your
journey to abundance. This is because what they share with you in terms of
information does not have the capacity to enlighten and inspire you to pay
close attention to your personal spiritual, physical, mental and economic
development. Rather the information makes you resentful, bitter and glued to a
spot.
You also do not need the likes of the biblical Laban around
you. These are users who simply want to use you for their personal upward
climb. They have no interest in your personal development and success. All they
want is that you are the goose who lays the eggs and they keep feeding fat on
the eggs. Fortunately, you can learn from Jacob on how he outsmarted supposedly
smart Laban and became wealthy. But the truth is that you do not need such
people. Give them a wide berth as soon as you can.
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